We should develop in our culture on how the relationship should be between husband and wife before child-birth. Children would be good in the family where there are no conflict of thoughts between each other. If there are conflict of thoughts, the repressive attitude against fundamental freedom, the struggle in it, would affect children. When we analyse deeply, the husband and wife should cooperate equally.

Each one has come to understand the mind of the other and live together helping each other. Marriage has happened, we have to learn to live happily . It should come to the stage that each one should necessarily help each other.

Instead of giving up, if each one holds on arguing his side is right, it would end up as conflict. It can be corrected if they perform the meditation properly; they can move to the awakened stage from the illusionary stage.